The problem isn't being "normal" which I'm sure is easy for neurotypicals, but for us awkward types not so much. I'm literally diagnosed "has trouble reading social cues" so yeah sometimes picking up on those might be harder than taxes.
But even normal men are seen as default rapists, assaulters, and murderers simply for being a man. I understand this is because many women have been assaulted before, but for some reason it still seems like painting an entire gender with a broad brush because of the actions of a small portion of that gender is "wrong." Maybe I only think that because it's wrong to do it to any other gender, or race, or sexual orientation, and so my broken neurodivergent brain says "well if it's wrong to do then it is wrong to do now." Like, I can't just assume every woman will cheat on me because 3 have, or that every woman will rape me because 2 have (3 if threatening suicide when I say no to convince me to begrudgingly do it counts, not sure since I eventually acquiesced but..) Nor can I assume every black guy is going to pull a knife on me just because it has happened once previously, and if I can count friends being stabbed it happened a lot back when a few of us lived in a particular neighborhood (all moved thankfully), and then there's the racist ol' "55% of crime is committed by 13% of the population" shit. Still with all of that, it's not right to paint those individual's entire demographic groups as the same, but it's fine just this one time?
Sorry, I'm just too dumb for such cognitive dissonance and ideological inconsistency, it's either wrong always or never.