I really did
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Yep, I’m an American who moved to Germany and I wish it was accepted to wear sweatpants and my husband’s t shirt to the grocery store. I still do sometimes, but I don’t enjoy being stared at angrily by old ladies in public, so most of the time I’ll at least pull jeans on. I’m never getting rid of my Asidutt though.
Luckily, linen shorts are as comfortable as sweatpants in warm weather and don’t look as schlubby.
I'm jealous that you can put your hair up like that. Mine would tie itself in about 20 interesting knots and stay that way
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Went to HS in the late 90s. I didn't "dress up" but I didn't want to look grundge or a homeless person. My classmates used to call me Metro or a yuppie.
Every girl wore sweats, and every guy dressed like a hobo in the 90s.
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Went to HS in the late 90s. I didn't "dress up" but I didn't want to look grundge or a homeless person. My classmates used to call me Metro or a yuppie.
Every girl wore sweats, and every guy dressed like a hobo in the 90s.
Looking Metro means you got style
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Every time I go to my kid's school, I am amazed at the difference between my day and now.
That time I went, there were kids just in pajamas and slippers. Not just one or two, dozens, and it wasn't some special day.
Then there's the dressier kids in lounge pants and whatever giant tshirt they pulled out of a drawer (or laundry basket) that were obviously their version of pajamas. Shit, one girl had very obviously rolled out of bed, thrown some leggings under her nightgown, slipped into crocs and jumped on the bus.
It's pretty cool tbh. Just no fucks given for meaningless frippery unless the individual kid/family wants it. Most of the kids were relaxed, nobody giving them shit for the way they're dressed, staff not even noticing at all. That's the way it should be imo. Whatever gets the kids in their seats and keeps everyone relatively engaged.
Yeah, there were still plenty of jeans and t-shirt sorts, a few of the button up shirt variants, and a handful of clothes hounds. But nobody was giving anyone shit about the clothes. From what my kid says, that wasn't just the case for the hour or so i was there that day.
We insist on clothes that are weather appropriate and acceptable for an emergency, but beyond that after seeing the norms there, we stopped giving a fuck.
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Thats lindsay lohan, and thats just what lowcut jeans did to us. Theres a reason they didnt stick around lol
They are literally back right now
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They are literally back right now
..oh god
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I feel like Americans would freak out in the most incredible way if they had hs uniforms
I'm American, I had a uniform, and idk, I kinda liked it. Didn't have to think about what to wear in the morning.
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We had some British software developers visit our group once and the contrast was stark. They wore suits and business dresses and we wore jeans and t-shirts. I mentioned the difference and one said they were expected to look professional. One of my gang said we were expected to write good code.
Never trust an IT guy in full suit and tie.
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Meangirls feels kinda accurate?
I remember the popular girls often dressed the way Lindsay Lohan did in that movie.Then again, I graduated shortly before that movie came out, so it's been a while and my memory may have failed me
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In my experience in American high school (20 or so years ago now) I wouldn't say they're ridiculously overdressed, but certainly kind of an outlier, we might've had a couple girls dress like that on any given day. They'd also probably be violating or at least very close to the limits of my school's dress code with the skirt lengths.
The left one looks about right to me though. Maybe slightly more dressed up than average, but would blend into most crowds well enough. Except for the heels, I wasn't exactly looking at people's shoes but I don't remember anyone ever wearing heels to school unless there was some sort of special event.
In general, I'd say the average high schooler back then wore a t shirt or maybe a sports jersey, and if it was cold maybe some of them wore a flannel shirt sweater of some kind (mostly the girls for sweaters)
A hoodie if it was cold
Jeans, sweatpants, sometimes pajama pants, shorts when it was hot out, cargo pants (mostly the guys) and once in a while some of the girls would mix in a skirt or dress, but not often.
You'd also get a handful of preppier kids with khakis and polo shirts or a button-up, a few goths or artsy types, etc. who might wear something crazy, the one weirdo who wore a suit, etc.
But mostly it was jeans or sweatpants and a t shirt.
I was more of a cargo pants and t shirt guy myself.
I don't pay too much attention to what my local teenagers are doing these days, but from what I've seen of them it looks like they've slipped further towards the sweatpants and pajamas end of the spectrum.
American who has been out of HS for a year now. I feel like unless you're a girl who seriously cares about her image/aesthetic and/or had a special event that day, most girls didn't dress like that at my HS. Not saying never at all, just not very often.
Also would've probably got dress coded in those anyway, especially the "spaghetti straps" dresses (distinctly remember a faculty member telling a student body kid that their dress straps were too small and to cover up before a ceremony
), the skirts are toeing the line.
Lots of us were in pajamas, sweatpants, Crocs & slides, hoodies, shorts, and some brought little plushies or small blankets. I mean seriously my old HS and current college have hordes of people who look ready to drop the moment they hit a chair.
I'm pretty average, I didn't wanna look too lazy so I never wore pajamas unless it was a spirit day. But I was usually in sweatpants on the nice days, and jeans in the cold seasons (although some freaks still wore shorts and Crocs in 40 degree weather). Hoodies all the time, unless it was literally boiling hot. Did my best to not wear shorts sometimes because of body hair fear, but stopped giving a fuck by college.
Some people definitely dressed up, but only those who were doing an aesthetic/style of some sort (neon, goth, punk, clean girl, etc). The rest of us were lazy bums lol.
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I feel like Americans would freak out in the most incredible way if they had hs uniforms
I feel like anyone would freak out in the most incredible way if they had their freedom of choice and autonomy suddenly stripped away.
Uniforms aren't part of the culture in US public education. There's also conflicting studies on whether uniforms even make a difference so it's not like there's a clear argument for them.
Also, while uniforms aren't standard in public schools there is typically a dress code students are expected to follow.
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My high school look was so extra that if you lived in Seattle 25 years ago just talking about my hair and jacket could dox me.
Nice, same. Then I reverted to corporate boring after high school and am now finding my freedom again.
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American here.
Every single one of those girls would have been sent home for "inappropriate clothing" at my school.
Yeah, first thing I noticed. Those skirts are all under higher than the fingertips. Love the patriarchy 🥲
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My high school look started off so extra. It pivoted so slightly, yet thoroughly, to whatever the opposite of extra is, that if I described it and dropped a location I'd probably dox myself.
Same, what have you got to lose?
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Looking Metro means you got style
No it means you have to fight Nazis, Commies, and figure out what the fuck the dark ones are doing.
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Same, what have you got to lose?
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I feel like Americans would freak out in the most incredible way if they had hs uniforms
I'm currently living in Texas near thr Dallas area and almost all schools here have uniforms and clear plastic backpacks. It's odd to see for someone who never dealt with such things but its the norm here.
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Meangirls feels kinda accurate?
I remember the popular girls often dressed the way Lindsay Lohan did in that movie.Then again, I graduated shortly before that movie came out, so it's been a while and my memory may have failed me
Graduated in '07 and yeah, all Mean Girls was missing was Happy Bunny and these fucking things:
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The thumbs through the belt loops thing lmao
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I meant, might as well get weird with your fashion.