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  • Z
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    Ladies don’t want to talk to you.
    They don’t want you to approach them.
    They don’t want you to initiate social interaction.
    Men need to be less visible, less audible, overall less perceptible, because this coincides with them being less obnoxious.

    And that is correct. This is how you manage to appear less obnoxious and threatening as a man. This is how you seperate yourself from the predators and machos. It also helps men avoiding problematic women as well. It's a win-win.

  • Z
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    Classic just-world fallacy.

  • A
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    This is Lemmy so they're probably all the same person, worth keeping in mind.

  • Z
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    I suggest talking to more men because then you'll learn that it's just as dangerous for them (if not even more dangerous) to go to a festival alone. This is a sure way to end up in hospital (if you manage to call an ambulance) or dead because there's always plenty of groups out there looking for some "action".

  • Z
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    Going out nowadays doesn't work anymore. Things have changed dramatically in the last few decades.

  • Z
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    You either accept being one of the good ones or you end up being one of the bad ones.

  • mitm0@lemmy.worldM
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    Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
    Honestly I don't see what makes chasing after women so special, you men have better things to do in your lives.

    So go out there & enjoy your hobbies. Stop wasting your time with this nonsense & trust me; you men will still be hated but at least you'll be educated.

  • mitm0@lemmy.worldM
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    Here's the thing, you man-hater. Men are considered sub-humans just for existing

    UPDATE: Yup people love misandry. Until it affects them personally

  • Z
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    Does making lemonade out of the lemons life gives you make you hate oranges? No.

  • Z
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    Sure, why not?

  • L
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    Because it's seen as a primary factor in the "male loneliest" issue. Not only are we trying to get noticed in a sea of options but now we have to fight it being assumed we are just gonna molest them which making meeting people and trying to get connect extremely difficult. Frustration turns that into a crash out about how your not like that

  • O
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    Going out to talk with people is now impossible because everyone busy for themselves .

  • Z
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    Chasing is only fun for predators. That's why it's such a frustrating and unfulfilling experience for the majority of men.

  • T
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    Of course. It's not mine, cross post/share away!

  • A
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    (cries in very high cost of living, old rich people area)

  • B
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    Chasing is fun, if you do it right.

    Go out, learn some new hobbies, try new things. Make a point to at least try some things you don't like. Make new friends, and you'll probably find someone who is equally happy to find you. The chase can be fun, but don't chase a person, chase happiness, run with the pack, and find the one who is running with you.

  • L
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    The comic may be and so may the comment I was replying to.
    The question, however, isn't: people may have more on their minds than the pursuit of women, eg, the state of humanity.

    Moreover, the comic is about multiple things.
    The man sees an invitation to meet women.
    The woman sees a warning.

    It makes as much sense to ask about this discrepancy, messages, norms.

  • A
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    And me saying that to black people when they get mad I said they're one of the good ones isn't racist? 'Cause..

  • ladybutterfly@reddthat.comL
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    Awesome thanks 😊