Classic just-world fallacy.

This is Lemmy so they're probably all the same person, worth keeping in mind.

I suggest talking to more men because then you'll learn that it's just as dangerous for them (if not even more dangerous) to go to a festival alone. This is a sure way to end up in hospital (if you manage to call an ambulance) or dead because there's always plenty of groups out there looking for some "action".

Can I share this in [email protected] or [email protected]

Going out nowadays doesn't work anymore. Things have changed dramatically in the last few decades.

You either accept being one of the good ones or you end up being one of the bad ones.

Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Honestly I don't see what makes chasing after women so special, you men have better things to do in your lives.

So go out there & enjoy your hobbies. Stop wasting your time with this nonsense & trust me; you men will still be hated but at least you'll be educated.

Here's the thing, you man-hater. Men are considered sub-humans just for existing

UPDATE: Yup people love misandry. Until it affects them personally

Does making lemonade out of the lemons life gives you make you hate oranges? No.

Sure, why not?

Because it's seen as a primary factor in the "male loneliest" issue. Not only are we trying to get noticed in a sea of options but now we have to fight it being assumed we are just gonna molest them which making meeting people and trying to get connect extremely difficult. Frustration turns that into a crash out about how your not like that

Going out to talk with people is now impossible because everyone busy for themselves .

Chasing is only fun for predators. That's why it's such a frustrating and unfulfilling experience for the majority of men.

Of course. It's not mine, cross post/share away!

(cries in very high cost of living, old rich people area)

Chasing is fun, if you do it right.

Go out, learn some new hobbies, try new things. Make a point to at least try some things you don't like. Make new friends, and you'll probably find someone who is equally happy to find you. The chase can be fun, but don't chase a person, chase happiness, run with the pack, and find the one who is running with you.

The comic may be and so may the comment I was replying to.
The question, however, isn't: people may have more on their minds than the pursuit of women, eg, the state of humanity.

Moreover, the comic is about multiple things.
The man sees an invitation to meet women.
The woman sees a warning.

It makes as much sense to ask about this discrepancy, messages, norms.

And me saying that to black people when they get mad I said they're one of the good ones isn't racist? 'Cause..

Awesome thanks

Sharing hobbies is not what I would call chasing, that's just basic social skills. Chasing is pretty much all the pick-up artist stuff. But honestly, I find people of today extremely boring, especially young people. The most complex hobby they have is doing workout to look fit and even that is done on a very superficial level. Nobody makes art anymore or is into philosophy or psychology. It's all just about consuming memes and TikTok slop or pretending to be creative by using AI or joining the current virtue signaling/slacktivism hypetrain on social media. That's why I prefer to talk to older people, you can sit down with them in a café and talk for hours about plenty of topics without ever looking at a smartphone. But it's not easy to find them, they don't go out much either for similar reasons. Society has changed a lot in the last decades and all I can do is to accept that and cherish those rare occasions.